How effective you are in life is essentially determined by your level of clarity and balance.

Every Human Being has a certain Genius within them; but they often destroy it by trying to be like someone else.

Whether it is happiness or unhappiness, pain or pleasure, agony or ecstasy, essentially it happens from within.  

This is the nature of existence - if you do the right things, the right things will happen to you.

With morality, you will become crooked. With humanity, your heart will naturally beat for everything in existence.