Being attached to someone is not about the other person. It is about your own sense of inadequecy.

If someone is hurting and it does not hurt you at all, that means you have forsaken your humanity.

Compassion is not condescending kindness. It is a passionate engagement with everything around you.

Lovers and devotees must be allowed a certain margin. Otherwise, just hard logic will kill both love and devotion.

A spouse is not a destination but a fellow traveler.