Looking good is not important. Is life a great experience for you or not? This is what is important. This shift in values must happen.

Once you are at ease, you will always do your best. In doing your best, your life is a fulfilling experience.

Your life works to the extent that you make yourself capable, are responsible, and enhance the possibility of who you are.  

The experience of life should mature you. It is your choice to transform a memory into a wound or wisdom.

The external dimension of life can bring you comfort and convenience. Only the inner dimension can bring fulfillment.