Being attached to someone is not about the other person. It is about your own sense of inadequacy.

If it is conditional, it is not love.

Love is a process of inclusion. Once I include you as a part of me, I will be to you just the way I am to myself.

A spouse is not a destination but a fellow traveler.

In marriages, there are divergent expectations. The woman expects the man to change. The man expects the woman to never change.