The wedding itself is not important. The focus should be on what you make out of it later.

A spouse is not a destination but a fellow traveler.  

You want to be loved because you feel incomplete. Otherwise, being loved can be quite a nuisance.

If you see that people are the way they are because of their limitations, you will strive to help them break their limitations, rather than judge them.

If it is conditional, it is not love.