You want to be loved because you feel incomplete. Otherwise, being loved can be quite a nuisance.

If you are in a state of reaction, anyone or anything can take charge of your life. Conscious response is the way forward.

If someone loves you because you are theirs, it is about you being their property. If someone loves you for who you are, you are fortunate.

If two people come together, it should be a sharing of joy, not extracting joy from each other.

If you eliminate the need to get something out of Human relationships, if you naturally overflow with joy, you can have fabulous relationships with all sorts of people.