Nowhere in the history of humanity, or today, or in anytime in future, will human relationships be absolute. Though every, every person who gets little romantic, believes that this is going to be an absolute relationship. There is no such thing about it. A relationship is a variable, always. You have to conduct it on a daily basis. One day if you don’t conduct it properly, it may go somewhere. Yes or no? No, please look at it as it is. You have to conduct it right.
A relationship is a variable reality. It is not an absolute reality
So – no, I’m doing my best. Obviously somebody feels your best is not good enough for them. I want you to come to terms with this. This is not about… I’m not saying what they’re doing is right or wrong. That’s not for me to say. All I’m saying is – this is how human beings have been functioning for ages, and still are. I’m saying, first of all, you need to understand, relationships will never ever be absolute. They will be variables that you… it’s juggling that you have to do. If you’re juggling with fireballs, one sometimes [falls], it’ll spill out. Takes lot of skill and attention. Yes or no? You’re married, many of you. Doesn’t it take lot of skill and attention? If you don’t pay any attention, you don’t know what the hell is happening. It takes a lot of attention, isn’t it?
So I’m saying, you need to understand this. A relationship is a variable reality. It is not an absolute reality. If you want to have an absolute relationship, you must hold relationships with the dead.
Punishing somebody else is not going to transform your life, not going to make your life beautiful in any way
It’s time you look deeper, rather than reacting and trying to fix somebody else. Punishing somebody else is not going to transform your life, not going to make your life beautiful in any way. Some sick satisfaction you’ll have for two days, after that you’ll feel guilty about that also. So don’t go that way. This is an opportunity. Somebody is opening up a spiritual dimension for you.
